Changing concepts of happiness

 Change ideas being available (2009-10-06 14:00:41)
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Xu by: Xu is now set by the title. The original, entitled life When a company in Beijing, ordinary programmers, 5,000 tax deduction that I pay the insurance money after all (or should I say it is the actual comparison of hand, saying that no meaningful wage theory), the annual income of about 6 million years.
As an undergraduate, a few years ago after graduating from Northeastern University, my length of service of the programmers, this treatment is very common, very common, people with high wages, there are many, but basically the management and senior technical staff, wage low there are many, mostly just to work or education is not high. my income is the middle layer.
like us living in Beijing to seek bachelors, the meal usually do not do, because they cook to eat with fast food cost less the same, I bought a breakfast of bread and a bottle of milk, which requires three dollars, lunch meat and a prime night to eat the lunch of two factors, plus breakfast money almost 20 per day, so that rice per month money, about 600, plus occasional drink with friends and colleagues to spend money eating out, eat the money spent on basic year is 7 thousand Yuan.
I rented a 40 square meters of the suburbs of the old one home, 1500 yuan monthly, and not expensive, plus management fees and utilities and daily total of 1,600 yuan per month, a year down to 20,000.
meals and housing are to spend the bulk of life, there are fixed costs transport and communication costs, transportation charges are not expensive, the bus back and forth every day, also over 1 month, fixed telephone and mobile phone charges of 100 yuan, which is almost throughout the year add up to four thousand.
as in the office work is required to wear formal clothes, some of the summer dress is a common tie with shirt pants shoes, Xidan City last weekend I went to visit a shopping mall, find a cheap summer assembly down to 1500 (300 shirt , tie 200, 400 pants, underwear 80, socks 20, 400 shoes, belts 100 are local brands, a import brand trousers will 1000), dressed in a suit and sweater in winter plus a set of 3000. I every two 4 sets of summer for 3 years for 2 sets of winter clothes, plus some normal wear casual clothing, clothing a year to spend a total of six thousand Yuan.
remove these, every year there will be about 7 thousand other expenses, including usually buy books, learning, Internet access costs 2 thousand year the Chinese New Year round-trip travel expenses back home a thousand, and the New Year your parents of the two thousand. These are my normal life, the cost to the quality of life is not too much, a little luxury consumption that are not (eg, play, pub, sing KTV, tourism, etc.), all add up to 40,005 per year, so I can rest 5 thousand dollars. However, to ensure that a fever is not a year, or for two back to the hospital this will not protect the fruits of victory.
my annual salary of 6 million, deposits of 5 thousand per year, normal lives, but the work a few years later, I found the problem here, because I suddenly found myself Express 30, the girlfriend has not one, parents began urging me to hurry to get married. Yes ah, man Sanshierli, cause you can not stand up slowly,UGG boots, the house or to the total into it. So I carries a 6-year savings of 30,000, ready to find the object of marriage.
room office in Beijing, mostly girls, are very simple, this may be a pragmatic culture of the so-called female white-collar workers out of the fight, do not wear clothes of the World brand, food to go French restaurant, the boyfriend talk about the culture of non-basic no foreigners, have also individuals. but that does not mean she should be subsidizing you, though do not want you to feed, but can not because you are married with two thousand have come out ahead to you, certain users have said, happy and stable marriage, the husband of its economic base is 1.8 times the income of the wife, depending on, not know he was counted out loud noise, but think also meet certain situation. So I'm looking for an annual salary of 60,000 with me, MM is not conducive to stability, in fact, even though I wish people would not marry me, even if the old 30 soon, and look I'm sorry the audience not to marry me. The annual salary of 30 000 MM have the following , looks good looks should be converted into 10 million to 100 million annual salary calculations, so I will not marry, so good match is the annual salary of more than 30,000 objects, the basic worthy of our girls grow.
by a friend, I know a little girlfriend Joan, after a year of love, I found that Joan is really small individual stickers girl, she never asked me to buy expensive gifts to her, eating out is to go small Chinese restaurant, do not play out, clothes do not buy brand name, and occasionally watch movies, send Valentine's Day cards on the line. She said that two people live, if we really love each other like, do not need so much vanity. my god, what a great girl, in this materialistic society, there is still such a simple kind of girl, I'm so happy. because the feeling too good, can not help on the bed, and because a good condom to 3,4 dollars a month, money is better than dozens of sets of Therefore, the provincial money to buy a 1 dollar 2 defective condoms, spent 10,000 yuan in the paragraph after dating and contraception failed, I decided to marry her.
so we are prepared to buy a house, a security in Beijing home. Now the average price of 5 ring outside the house has been 6000, and even the humble second-hand floor, are mostly out of 4,5 thousand of prices, we look at kind of a house of 80 square meters, this is not a luxury the first phase and a total of simple decoration to 30 million. girlfriend annual salary of only 3 million, with colleagues sharing a dorm room, of course, there will be no deposits. So I removed the existing 2 million, I would scrape together the down payment can be 28 million to , and if I save 5 thousand per year, 48 years later I can buy a set of his own house mortgage to live, but we can not get married after 48 years, ah, so I decided to talk to their parents through. that is to use, in fact, discussion, because can not have borrowed from. We have only one child, parents are party people who hurt children, but have not been laid off before retirement, hundreds of thousands of lives saved, if we put the money should come should be able to got enough money down and decoration. Parents also a little in retirement pension, can only make them with the province over, usually so that they exercise more, do not get sick as long as the rest of my life, should be able to go on.
to Well, buy a house down payment, we began to consider the cost of marriage, is to please the customer, is to shoot the wedding, the honeymoon is to degree can be a simple but can not engage in, or not called marriage, and called cohabitation . So we decided to treat 2 million, 3 thousand wedding, 2 dollars to travel honeymoon in Jiangsu province, from simple enough for you? that needs 20,005, and I kept five thousand a year, 5 years later give a feast to do the wedding. but we can wait until 5 years after the wedding do, so not up for it, when children are 4 years old and a half, he will have to leave with the kindergarten teacher said to my teacher today, I want to pro-father and mother's wedding. So we decided with my colleagues first, by 30,000, 20,005 married, have children keep 5 thousand, more than 6 years to pay off the money, we can honor my parents, now 4 thousand dollars a year the money and her honor 1 thousands of parents used the money debt, the parents would not honor the!