Tolerance
a pig, a sheep and a cow was kept in the same corral. Once caught the pig herders, it loud howl, violently resist. Sheep and cows hate it howl, he said: hair and milk, but catch me, but it is killing me!
different positions, different people their environment, it is difficult to understand each other's feelings; so frustrated on others, frustration, pain, should not gloat, but should be caring, understanding mood. have a forgiving heart! it must first lay down their own ideas and point of view, the intention of feeling, put yourself in the experience, then, do their ability to cope, help.
2, on their own little snail
asked her mother: Why we are born, we should bear this hard and heavy shell do?
Mom: Because our bodies do not support bone, only to climb, and climb slowly. so to the protection of this shell!
snail: sister no caterpillar bones, also climbing fast, why she was not back this hard and heavy shell do?
Mother: Because her sister could turn into a butterfly caterpillars, the sky will protect her ah.
snail: But the bones did not climb earthworm unhappy brother, it will not turn into a butterfly what he does not back this hard and heavy shell do?
Mother: Because earthworms brother will drill soil, the earth will protect him ah.
snail cry: We are so poor, does not protect the sky, the earth is not protected.
snail mother consoled him:
days we do not rely on, nor rely on, we rely on their own.
3, sharks and fish
had such an experiment would be one of the most ferocious sharks and put a group of tropical fish in the same pond, and then separated with a glass, first, the shark can not see every day for the piece of glass collision resistance, where it is only futile, it still can not go over to the opposite, and laboratory personnel every day to put some carp in the pool, so the shark did not lack of prey, but still want to cross it, want to try the taste of that beautiful day, is still the constant crash That glass, it tried every corner, every time run out best, but every time, always get the scars, both whole body several times bleeding, continued for some days, when cracks in the glass one, the experimenter immediately with a thicker glass.
Later, Sharks no longer crash the piece of glass, and for those of colorful tropical fish are no longer concerned, as if they just move the wall murals, which began waiting for the carp will be each day, and then used his quick hunting instinct, like back in the mighty sea vicious domineering, but it is all just fake like just to the final stage of experiment, the experimenter removed the glass, but the shark did not respond in a day is fixed regional travel to its tropical fish only for those who turn a blind eye, even when those carp escaped to the side, he would immediately give up the chase, saying that the past does not wish the end of experiment, the laboratory personnel sneer at sea it is the most weak fish.
our experience and habits of some invisible barriers and constraints, because too accustomed to, it has become a difficult to detect the If not remove the shackles of these habits, we can not have a broader, better and more comfortable life.
4, miracles
a remote town in France, reportedly had a special efficacious springs, problems often arise miracles, you can cure various diseases. One day, one on crutches, one leg missing veterans limping in the street through the town, next to the town's back with a sympathy kiss, said: pray for another leg up?? not a leg, too, know how to live. The gain and loss, always make their own life is full of bright and glory, not for the last tears, and strive to live every moment of the glory of life.
5, there was an old fishing rod
fishing in the river, a child came to see him fishing for the elderly skill proficiency, so did not take long to catch on the full basket of fish, the elderly see the kids are cute, should give him a whole basket of fish, the children shook his head, amazing old man asked: . Wrong, if he just fishing rod, a fish that he ate nothing. Because he did not understand fishing techniques, the light rod is useless there, because fishing is not important,
Too many people think they have a life, Road to the fishing rod, no longer on the road without fear of wind and rain, so, it will inevitably fall on the muddy ground. As a child at the old man, thinking that as long as there are fishing rod fish eat, like the staff to see the boss, that as long as sitting in the office, have rolled into the financing.
=============================================== ====================< br> 1: good is a habit.
this sentence is the ancient Greek philosopher Aristotle said. If excellence is a habit, then laziness is a habit. Were born, in addition to temper will be different because of nature, other things are basically formed the day after tomorrow is the result of family influence and education. Therefore, our words and deeds are said accumulation over a habit. Some of us formed a good habit, some people form a bad habit. So from now on we should become a good habit, so that we take for granted the excellent behavior, become our second nature. Let us habitually to creative thinking, the habit of doing things to go seriously, the habit of being kind to others, habitually enjoy nature.
Note: To be equipment installed to see you, see you installed 30 years, installed a long time to form a habit. To understand the life according to the highest level of :)
2: Life is a process.
results, while important things, but the process of doing things is more important, as well that we will be more happy, but the process to enrich our lives. The end result of human life must be killed, we can not say that our life has no meaning. There are few world eternal. Students fall in love, every day vowed that I will love you forever, this is actually true. Statistics show that college students love the 100 pairs in the final 90 will break up, married and was also the last half will divorce. You say that love can be eternity? Therefore, the most true to say that: This experience is also a process that enrich your life.
Note: the meaning of life itself is very deep, but not all can understand, in most cases, it is your perception of a state to give your life meaning you want to achieve, so the process of carefully every sentiment of life A moment is all about.
3: the shortest distance between two points is not necessarily a straight line.
in interpersonal relations and the process of doing things difficult for us to put things right straight. We sometimes need to wait, sometimes cooperative, sometimes tricky. We do things will encounter many difficulties and obstacles, and sometimes we do not have to endure, hard red, we can choose to bypass the difficulties, there is an obstacle to go around, maybe do things more smoothly. Think about it, we have to think about Naju Hua and others speak it better to listen to. Especially in the more complex society, we have to learn to think of ways to understand others, to make everyone think you understand who this person can understand, very mature, very good, you can to do it.
Note: If you are mathematics questions, be sure to answer the shortest straight line between two points, if you walk from A to B, clearly can last, but not all go, you'd better not go , because trap. People skills, linear thinking, in many places to run into a wall, which is characteristic of people, to know with them.
4: Only know how to stop people know how to speed up.
when I ski, the greatest experience is to stop. I just started to learn skiing does not have a coach, watching other people ski, and I'm easy, do not slide down the mountain from the top is it? So I put on my skis, he slides about to slide down, and the results I slid down the mountain from the top, actually rolled down the mountain, bounded from point fall for many. I found that simply do not know how to stop, how to maintain balance. Finally, I repeated how to practice in the snow, the slope to stop. Training for a week, I finally learned to stop at any slope, sliding, and then stop. This time I find myself skiing, and to dare to the hill at high speed from the top of the next punch. Because I know if I want to stop, a turn will be able to stop. As long as you stop, you will not hit the tree and hit a rock and hit people, you will not be killed. Therefore, only know how to stop people who know how to fast forward.
Note: use the car analogy, the car can be on hundreds of thousands of 200 km, a few million cars are only on the 120 km, and why? Estimates comparable to the engine, the difference in the braking system, 200 km on the car can not brake, Oh, my God!
5: to give a kind of wisdom, defects as a favor.
when you have six apples, do not eat them all, because all six apples you eat, you eat to six apples, eating into a kind of smell that is Apple taste. If you put five of the six apples out to others to eat, although, you lose five apples, but you actually got the other five of friendship and goodwill. You can get more later, when someone is when other fruits, they will certainly share with you, you will get an orange from individual hands, the hands of that person to get a pear, you may get the last six different fruits, six different flavors, six different colors, six friendship.
So, give a kind of wisdom.
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